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Frilly Lilly Boutique

This uber feminine wax boutique is now open on Montana Ave in Santa Monica and I am so excited to share my waxing wonderland find with you all! Appropriately named Frilly Lilly,  this girlie heaven is super cute with a shabby chic atmosphere that is inviting and homey! They specialize in waxing, and have a full range of bath and body products that are to die for! Try the Frilly Lilly body butter in Butter Cream. It smells YUMazing and has a smooth silky feel. The boutique also has bath and body products that are perfect for gifts, such as these bath cakes! What a wonderful relaxing treat!

Frilly Lilly Boutique has something I like to call the master waxer. Sort of like a master chef but for waxing. The wax specialists really know what they are doing and have their technique down to an art. The location is clean as a whistle and all the staff have years of experience. It really is a must try if you have not been yet!

Check out what all the buzz is about!

My good friends at Spaphile have a $15 off services offer for Frilly Lilly Boutique right now if you are interested! See details here.

Frilly Lilly Boutique

1007 Montana Avenue

Santa Monica, CA 90403

(310) 260-5522

Martini Glass Food Displays

Recently, I have been seeing mini martini glasses used to hold a variety of appetizers and I am absolutely loving it! Above, the one and only Hostess With the Mostess Blog featured a caprese skewer in a martini glass that is super cute and unique! The Hostess Handbook suggests playing around with some unique martini glass food displays the next time you have a dinner party! FABtastic!

How amazing are these shrimp cocktail mini martini glasses? This is such a great summer appetizer and wonderful display put together by Delectables Catering! Next time you want to impress your guests, serve this. It’s so simple and no cooking involved for the girl on the go!

I love the idea of mini donuts for dessert. Grace’s Sweet Life Blog sure got it right with these martini glass food displays! No melting, fuss or preparation involved! Simply buy a bunch of mini donuts and stick them in a martini glass to make an outstanding dessert display that looks like a million bucks but wont break the bank.

Decorating with Moss

Do you want a shabby chic feel to your apartment but don’t know how to achieve the look? Decorating with moss can help! Its not all about distressed furniture and antiques, however those do help, but the little elements that can help you get the design you want. I think pairing moss with some “Shabby Chic basics” creates the gardeny, laid back yet fancy feel of the design aesthetic.

When I think of  Shabby Chic accessories I think silver cans, glass orbs, trays, apothecary jars ect. So The Hostess Handbook went out and got a couple of these items on the cheap and paired them with some green moss to create a complete look! Ikea has some great options for decorating with moss and tons of selection. The items are super Cheaptastic which is a big plus for the young, broke and fabulous! You can create this look on a budget no problem. Get your moss at any garden store or order online at Amazon! The Hostess Handbook suggests getting the “Super Moss” preserved reindeer moss because the texture is perfect for filling in items such as cans and glass orbs.

Design a complete look by adding moss around your flower arrangement and breaking up the silver on silver look!

Taadah! Totally Shabby Chic!

Gruyere and Thyme Cheese Straws & Honey-Roasted Cashews W. Chili & Lime


Contributing Chef- Abby Reibman- Author of The Desk and The Stove

Show off your culinary skills this holiday season with some easy cocktail munchy tips from Abby at The Hostess Handbook. Instead of just putting out some cheese and crackers and a bowl of nuts (sooo passé), make these delicious Gruyere and Thyme Cheese Straws and roast your own cashews – this super tasty lime and chili infused honey marinade definitely ups the game!

 Gruyere and Thyme Cheese Straws (Makes 24)

3/4 cup grated Gruyere

4 tbl grated Parmesan

5 sprigs of thyme, leaves chopped

1 cup all purpose flour

¾ stick cold unsalted butter, cut into ½ inch cubes

½ tsp salt

¼ tsp cayenne pepper

1 ½ tbl milk

 

1- Preheat oven to 350 F.

2- Mix the flour, salt, chopped thyme leaves, cayenne pepper, cheese and butter together with your fingertips to until it resembles coarse-meal.

3- Add the milk to bind together and form a ball with the dough.

4- Roll out the dough on a lightly floured surface to a ⅛ inch thick rectangle.

5- Using a pizza cutter or sharp knife, cut the dough into ⅓ inch wide strips.

6- Transfer the strips to an ungreased baking sheet – leaving ¼ inch wide space between the strips.  Bake for 15-16 minutes or until pale golden, rotating the baking sheet halfway through.

Honey-Roasted Cashews with Lime and Chili

3 cups raw unsalted cashews

1 tsp lime zest

2 tbl honey

2 tbl dark brown sugar (you can use

½ tsp chili flakes

2 ½ tsp coarse salt flakes

1-2 tbl water

 

1- Preheat oven to 350 F.

2- Grind lime zest together with the coarse salt. Add the chili flakes, honey, and sugar.

3- Loosen the mixture with the water adding each tablespoon as necessary.  Add the cashews and toss to coat.

4- On a parchment-lined baking sheet, bake the cashews in a single layer for 20 min or until golden. Let cool completely.

 

New Years Drink Do’s

Ring in the New Year with a Kir Royale cocktail! Easy, inexpensive and too cute to boot! Make sure to put a raspberry in the glass and a lemon rind to top it off!

Kir Royale Ingredients:

1/2 Ounce of Chambord (1/2 of a shot)

1 Raspberry

Champagne

Small Piece of lemon rind

Directions:

Pour Chambord into the bottom of a champagne flute, then fill glass with champagne. Add 1 raspberry and garnish with a circular lemon rind piece. Don’t forget to drink up!

If your throwing a New Years Eve bash and want to stick with the classic champagne, glam up the display! This is really simple and allows you to serve the drinks by hand or leave the tray on a table and have it look fabtastic! Take a plastic “silver” tray and spread chunky multicolored confetti around the plate. The Hostess Handbook loves chunky confetti! Simply place the champagne glasses on top and serve!

 

 

Top Ten New Year Resolutions

Web MD

The new year is upon us and everyone seems to have their list of resolutions all ready to go! So where is the hitch..where does it go wrong? Yup, most of the top ten resolutions are also the top ten most broken resolutions. This year, The Hostess Handbook suggests you pick one goal. Make it the most important one to you and really try to stick with it. Don’t get overwhelmed, instead, get excited!
1. Lose Weight
2. Cut down on drinking
3.Quit Smoking
4. Eat Healtheir
5. Stress Less
6. Spend more time with the family
7. Volunteer
8. Save Money
9. Get a Job
10. Travel and explore more

The Perfect Party Lips: Violent Lips- Glitteratti Collection

If  ever there was a time to take sparkle to the next level, its New Years Eve! The Violent Lips Glitteratti Collection of lip “tattoos” are super cray cray and so holiday appropriate! You will definitely stand out with your sultry lips! Don’t worry, The Hostess Handbook wouldn’t lead you astray, these “tattoos” are not permanent!

Shrimp and Shitake Shumai

Tasty Tip 

Shrimp and Shitake Shumai

Contributing Chef- Abby Reibman- Author of  The Desk and The Stove

Dumplings, popular on dim-sum tables, are also an integral part of the Chinese New Year feast – these small packages are thought to contain luck. This steamed version filled with shrimp, cilantro and shitake mushrooms are a super tasty treat, and, served in these cute Chinese soup spoons, they are the  perfect canape for your Chinese New Year party. The Hostess Handbook suggests giving your guests small red envelops filled with candy coins (traditionally money) with the dumplings and serving in these cute Chinese soup spoons. 金玉滿堂:Jinyu mangtang (May your wealth [gold and jade] come to fill a hall). In other words: Happy New Year!!!

Ingredients:

½ cup soy sauce
1 tbl  rice wine
1 tbl sesame oil, plus more for cooking
½ tbl fresh ginger, minced
½  pound shrimp, peeled and deveined
½ cup shitake mushrooms, chopped
½  cup  cilantro leaves, finely chopped
¼ cup scallions, chopped, white part only
20 round dumpling skins
juice of ½ lime
splash of white wine

 Directions:

  1. Sear the shitake mushrooms in sesame oil in a small saute pan for about 3-4 min on medium-high heat. Deglaze with white wine and season with salt and pepper.
  2. Combine the soy sauce, rice wine, sesame oil and 1 tbl of the minced ginger in a small bowl.
  3. Blend half the shrimp, half the mushrooms, half the cilantro, ½ tbl of the ginger and all the scallions in food processor to form a paste.  Add 2 tbl of the soy sauce mixture and transfer to a bowl.
  4. Roughly chop the rest of the shrimp and mushrooms together and add to the paste with the rest of the cilantro. Stir to combine. Meanwhile, add the lime juice to the rest of the soy sauce mixture to create a dipping sauce.
  5. Separate the dumpling wrappers and using a fingertip, wet the edges of each with a bit of water. Spoon 1 tsp of the shrimp mixture into the middle of the wrapper and gently gather the edges around the mixture, pleating the edges. A bit should be left exposed.
  6. In a large pot, bring about an inch of water to a boil, and rig a steamer on top (I used a metal colander). Turn the heat down to a simmer. Gently place the dumplings in a single layer at the bottom of the steamer (or colander) and cover.  Cook until the wrapper becomes tender – about 5-6 minutes.  Transfer to a serving platter and serve with the dipping sauce.

Tinsel Loops Garland

I love the holiday season and all the festive decor that pops up at this time of year! However, a lot of the items that you see in the stores for holidays really don’t need to be bought but can be made at home! I was in Anthropology  the other day and came across the below Tinsel loops garland. I thought it was just the cutest thing but I also thought it is the easiest thing to DIY! Why spend $68 on something can make for $5? Ladies, get your DIY Diva hats on and lets get crafting!

Anthropology Tinsel Loops Garland

 Take silver pipe cleaners

Make a loop in with the middle section of the pipe cleaner.

Then use the remaining length to make a diamond shape and attach to the ring of the next pipe cleaner you will make. Attaching one after another of the loop/diamond shape will make a chain for you to drape around your tree!

This tinsel loops garland looks so great on the tree and is such a wonderful homemade touch for the holidays!

Tinsel loops garland on Christmas Tree

 

DIY Diva- Pink Hostess Snoball Woman

This DIY pink snow woman is easy to make and too cute to boot! It is perfect as holiday decor. The Hostess Handbook suggests you place it on a serving tray of dessert goodies as the main display!

Step 1. Take 3 Hostess Pink Snoballs and connect them by putting a straw through the middle of each as if it were a “back bone”

Step 2. Take mini white chocolate tips and attach by using pink icing as “glue”

step 3. Make a scarf with pink icing and white candy pearls (found in any grocery store bakery isle)

Step 4. Stick pretzels in the middle snoball for arms

Step 5. Decorate the face with raisin as the mouth, chocolate mini chips as the eyes and the orange part of a candy corn as the nose!

Bedazzled Mustache Straw

 

Bedazzled Mustache Straw

Of course, I had to take it to the next level with this mustache craze and design a bedazzled version for the holidays! I absolutely love mustache straws for parties and think it is a great activity to have for people to do while they are mixing and mingling!!  A bedazzled mustache straw is beyond glam and everyone will love making one for themselves!

Take a mustache stencil, you can print the picture below, and cut a stach out of felt!

Then back the felt with black foam. Cut a slit in the center of the mustache for the straw to go through

Attach the gems with a glue gun

Voila! A Super Glam bedazzled Mustache Straw!

Lamb Meatballs with Tzatziki

 

Contributing Chef- Abby Reibman-Author of  The Desk and The Stove

This oldie but goodie is a great canape for the holidays. Something substantial is always good when guests are drinking and having fun!

Despite my boyfriend Rob’s shortcomings in the kitchen – his idea of a gourmet meal is chicken nachos or the British version of grilled cheese (aptly titled cheese on toast. duh), even he managed to master this recipe.  The ground pistachios and mint elevate the flavors of the  ground lamb and the red pepper flakes pack a bit of a punch. The creamy tzatziki should be a striking contrast with the rich, bold flavors in the meatballs – the combination is toga -ood to be true (eyeroll for Rob’s terrible joke). Pair it with many glasses of ouzo – you’ll need it if your man puns as badly as mine! This is one finger-lickin’ good party food in the perfect bite-sized portion. A few plates might even be thrown in appreciation.

 

 

Ingredients: 

Meatballs                                        Tzatziki

1 ¼ pounds of ground lamb                        ⅔ cup Greek yogurt

1 sprig of mint, finely chopped                        ⅓ English cucumber

15 pistachios, ground in a food processor        ½ clove of garlic, made into a paste with salt

½ clove of garlic, finely chopped                3 sprigs of mint, finely chopped

A pinch of red pepper flakes                        A bunch of dill, finely chopped

Olive oil                                        A squeeze of lemon juice

Salt and pepper                                Olive oil

                                        

For the Meatballs…

1 – Put the ground meat in a large bowl.  Season with salt and pepper, add in the chopped garlic, ground pistachios, pinch of red pepper flakes and the chopped mint and mix together.

2 – Form small meatballs and place on a large plate ready to cook.

3 – Heat a large frying pan with olive oil on high heat and sear the meatballs until they are golden brown.  (approx. 2-3 minutes). Lower the heat and continue cooking for a further 4-5 minutes on each side.

3 – Remove them from the heat, place on a paper towel on a different plate to rest for 2 minutes.

 

For the Tzatziki….

1 – Peel the cucumber, slice it in half and scrape out the seeds using a teaspoon.

2 – Grate the cucumber into a bowl – it will be very wet so give it a good squeeze to release some of the water.  Next,  transfer the grated cucumber onto a paper towel, put another piece of paper towel on top of it and put it in a sieve or colander to continue releasing the moisture.  This is important to do, otherwise your tzatziki will be too loose!! Let stand for 20 minutes.

3 – Pour the Greek yogurt into a bowl and mix in the garlic paste. Remove the grated cucumber from the two pieces of paper towel and mix into the yogurt.

4 – Add the finely chopped mint and dill to the  yogurt, squeeze in a bit of lemon juice and a drizzle of olive oil to loosen it up.  Mix all together and adjust seasonings.

5 – To serve: arrange the meatballs on a plate and the tzatziki in a bowl – perfect for dipping! Or, place a dollop of the tzatziki directly on the meatballs for a perfect bite-sized canape!

 

Stay Tuned For Abby Reibman’s Very Own Blog This Fall!!!!!!!!!!

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Unique Gifts Under $40

I love putting together gift guides that are actually affordable! These options are all under $40 and so fab as either stocking stuffers or presents. These items are all things  that I would love to own but would never buy for myself! Thats the great thing about the holidays, getting everything you want but don’t need! Hopefully you can find some good options out of these unique gifts under $40!

Double Faced Watch- $34

Double-Faced Watch

 

Best Friends Case Set- $25

Bestie Phone Case Set

 

Candy Stash Wallet-$11.74

Candy Stash Wallet

Candy Stash Wallet

 

Cascade Necklace-$24

Cascade Necklace

Nutcracker Napkin Rings

I cannot get over these Cutetastic Nutcracker napkin rings from World Market! These are just too adorable! Could you imagine sitting down to a Christmas dinner and seeing these on the table! Pure Joy!  What a great hostess gift for the holidays! They are so unique and will start conversation among all the guests. The best part? The Hostess Handbook found these Nutcracker napkin rings on sale for  $6.99! Wowoweeewow! Love when you can be a budgeting diva!

 

Christmas Bow Nails

Bow Nails

I am obsessed with bows and wanted to do something festive with my nails that is also cute and classic. Thus the birth of my Christmas bow nails! One bow is in white and the other in silver glitter. I personally love the glitter bow but the white one is a little easier to see from far away.

Making the design is super easy for these bow nails! You take Milani nail art nail polish with precision brushes to draw the design. You can pick these nail polishes up at any CVS!  

You draw two sideways triangles on your nails that touch at the points. Then place a small dot in the middle where the knot would be! Easy peasy bow nails and soooo festive! Are you gonna sport these for the holidays?

Bow Nails

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